We live in a world of good and bad – the good, the bad and the ugly. Life happens to all of us and we cannot change that. We all have to deal with disappointment, hurt, fear and anger. Episodes that we experience can remain embedded in our subconscious.
Sometimes we think that we have gone over a hurt from someone we trusted, or a disappointment, or a broken relationship. We think that we have put it in our mind’s archives. The past memories are never real, they are only stored programs and little do we know that they are lingering in our subconscious. It is like files in your computer which remain there until you press delete and remove them from trash. How many times do we really press “delete” to the episodes in our lives that have left a negative impact on our lives?
Have you ever wondered how many times you focus your thinking on what happened in your past, and relive it all over again and again in your mind’s eye as if it is happening now? Yes we have all been there. Have you ever wondered how you lose the NOW and keep reliving a memory which is not real anymore? It is not easy to start over in life and yes it can be hard at times. But life is not about how hard you hit. Its about how hard you can get hit and
keep moving forward. You cannot change the past. What you can change is yourself, your attitude towards what happened to you and receive the courage to keep moving forward.
Courage is the ability to do something that frightens you. It overpowers the fear you feel that does not allow you to start over, do, be and have what you really want. It is the power that uplifts you and pushes you forward to receive the opportunities in life that knock on your door of life. We work with our clients and we take them through a mindset process to unleash the fear so that they discover the possibilities they have in the NOW. Because while you keep focusing on your past episodes, you lose the chance to embrace new opportunities that are being offered to you every single day.
I often hear these words: “you only live once, so enjoy every minute.” I disagree with this because we don’t live once. We live every single day and die once. That is why it is so important to go through the process of self healing and clear your mind from past episodes. This will enable you to move forward in life, start all over again, no matter how many times. This will give you back your personal power to do, be and have anything that you want. It starts from YOU by saying YES and embrace change. Why not you? You have absolute greatness within you. Embrace it.
Penned by Paul Chetcuti
